What would you call a blessing?

How would you answer this question?

What would you call a blessing? 

For the majority of the population they would probably answer as follows:

Family, Friends, Health, Home, Vehicle, Food and Water, Clothes, Money to pay bills. The list can be fairly long.

My children are my blessings. Straight from the hands of God, placed in my womb to grow and be nurtured. There is no greater joy.... for me anyways.

I had told many people about my current pregnancy, and it never surprises me of the few negative people out of the bunch. "Why do you want another kid," was stated by someone. I don't know that I just woke up one morning and said to myself over a cup of coffee,  " I think I should have another kid."

It is built in me to be a mother. That is my passion. Not a doctor, lawyer or some other profession that requires endless hours away from my family. I can remember back in the first grade and drawing a picture of what I wanted to be when I grew up. I made a picture of a mommy. 

With the passing of Isaiah, I'm sure people are really wondering, "why would she want another kid?" Well,  how can I explain to another person how I felt the day that I loss my son. There are no words that can sum up the loss of a child. To me, there is no greater loss, no deeper pain.  A huge hope dies with your child. All of the preparations that you have put together to get ready for your little one. Then............ to be wheeled out of the hospital with a swollen belly, no baby, and your child is leaving on the opposite end of the hospital in a box with a complete stranger. Need I say more?

So having another child is a blessing to me. To leave the hospital with a child this time, will be an answered prayer. 

In conclusion, it probably isn't a good idea for a person to ask the question, "why do you want another kid," to a bereaved parent.